One of the most challenging things I’ve had to learn is that healing must be intentional. There is no one golden day that comes and saves you from all your misery. Healing is a practice. You have to decide that it’s what you want to do and actively do it. You have to make a habit out of it. Once I learned that, I only looked back to see how far I came.
I have a job interview on Wednesday so I need all the luck I can get
Honestly that's a mood. Napoleon x Iskander makes some hot bara but tbh I don't really see much chemistry in it. Especially when compared to Iskander x Waver. Nothing wrong with shipping what you want. But its a bit crazy to see this amount of support for a ship over one My Room line. Especially when Iskander shows similar idolization towards Achilles as a historical figure and there wasn't anything like this when that happened.
It really is. Napoleon x Iskander just feels like muscled bara dude on bara dude. Kinda like a Sean C*dy video. Just white muscled dudes fucking with zero chemistry.
Like when I first stumbled to it, I thought there was a legit history between them so I searched them up only to find out there is only one interaction as you mentioned and it is actually one-sided. And recently, I just found out there was one fanart made by the artist. But I don’t see how a possibly platonic drinking session could lead to NapoIska being one of the biggest ships in the bara community and for it to warrant so many fanart that it floods my TL sometimes even when I dont actively follow NapoIska accounts or I have them muted. And like you said, Iskander admires Achilles but like it’s obvious that is platonic admiration.
And it leaves a bitter taste on my mouth too because WaverRider have a ton of interactions, and it’s not subtext that they love each other. But this ship does not get the same reception in the Bara community unlike NapoIska and it’s probably because Waver does not look like the conventionally bara af character.
Again, I am not saying that you’re a bad gay or you only like white gays if you ship NapoIska. But I also feel that this ship is really just big because they both resemble what is the considered the most attractive in the gay community. Bara is already niche and it originates in Japan so to have one of the popular bara ships be of two white men who look like they could be brothers and who have zero canon mutual interactions just does not sit well with me.
I showed this post to my boyfriend and he tried to take his shirt off like a girl and
uh
yeah
Out of the 82k notes my post got this is by far the best comment holy shit thank u for being u
So i tried it both ways and uh
i mean how do you do the first one without pulling out all your hair?
this made me laugh really hard….
and it made me realize that girls and boys pull their shirt off differently. /amazed
but seriously I think girls just do the cross arm thing because of HAIR like demonstrated
So one year, one URL change, and a hair cut later, I decide to try again… FOR SCIENCE!
Its not science unless you write it down so
First method:
Well done, i guess…
Second:
I fucked up
Girls… how?
I DON’T UNDERSTAND HOW WE CAN HAVE SUCH DIFFERENT WAYS OF TAKING OFF SHIRTS AND SO MUCH DIFFICULTY DOING IT THE OTHER WAY
I FIGURED IT OUT!!!!!
It’s all in the way that girl/boys shirts are made.
Girls shirts have less armpit room then boy’s do and are generally shorter so pulling it off over your head is more practical because by lifting your arms all the way up you make enough room for the sleeves to just slip off.
Boys shirts have more room and are generally longer so it is easy to slip them off over your head.
but if you take a girls shirt off like a boys shirt you will get your arms caught because there isn’t much armpit space.
and if you take a boys shirt off like a girls shit you will still have your head in it when you’ve lifted your arms all the way up because of the shirt’s length.
It has nothing to do with us. It is entirely to do with how our shirts are made. I figured it out for you. YOU’RE WELCOME!
bless you
look what is back on my dash. Jesus.
This came back but with ACTUAL SCIENCE you are the saviour of our generation
